Nauf: “So, did you do it?”
Boleskine: “Do what?”
Nauf: “You know, did you stick to your resolutions from last year?”
Boleskine: “Ummm, no. I didn’t make any.”
Nauf: “UGH, you’re no fun.”
A moment of silence passes between the friends, then as expected…
Nauf: “So, you making any for this year?”
Boleskine: “I don’t think so, nobody ever sticks to them you know.”
Nauf: “Maybe that should be your resolution.”
Boleskine: “What?”
Nauf: “If you resolve not to stick to the ones you make, then you are sure to follow through!”
Boleskine: “That’s nice, Naufragio. The pretty nurse will be here in a few moments with your medication. Why don’t you just relax into this warm white jacket, it’s a little cool in here…”
Well, once Naufragio escapes, I mean ditches the nurse, I mean…Naufragio has the Romans to thank for her plight.
Although a “New Year” has been celebrated as early 4000 years ago by the Babalonians, often at that time it was held in Spring, near the end of March. Many cultures of that time used a Lunar calendars which did not follow a 365 day cycle. The Chinese calendar is an example that one might be familiar with. The Julian and Gregorian calendars are Solar calendars. Although approved in 153 B.C by the Roman senate, the calendar was tweaked until 46 B.C. when Julius Cesar developed the calendar to accurately reflect the seasons that January first officially became the “New Year” for those that follow it. It was during that time that Janus was put in charge of those festivities.
Janus was the Roman God of beginnings and endings. He was often pictured with two faces, one looking forward and the other backwards. A symbol for change and transitions, he was the perfect deity for looking at those unwanted aspects of your past and planning for a better future. The Romans would give gifts of branches from sacred trees as well as nuts and coins with Janus’ image at midnight on Dec 31 when Janus was looking at the year coming and the year leaving simultaneously. He became a symbol for resolutions throughout the ancient world and the month of January was named after him. (Starting to make sense now, isn’t it?)
P.S.
January 1 has extra special meaning in my family. It is the birthday of not only my father, but his mother as well. My grandmother has passed on but she is always remembered on the day of her birth, the same day (different years, duh) that she gave birth to my father.





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December 23, 2008 at 7:09 pm
rockartist
I’m still thinking of what things I want to resolve to do – that I know without a doubt I will do or can do…is that cheating? I always thought the point of a resolution is to challenge us to complete something really difficult, or really important, that we have been procrastinating on for months and or in my case years…which obviously shows I’m not good at keeping resolutions either. In fact because I am a Taurus, I think procrastination is my worst enemy in life but once I get started on something I am so stubborn, I must finish it because one thing I hate worse than not starting something is not finishing something I start! Does that make any sense? Maybe my resolution should be to resolve to discover what my resistance IS to starting something I need to do? Hopefully then I won’t need to make any more resolutions. You can send the men in white coats out here next. LOL
December 23, 2008 at 10:27 pm
naufragiobella
They may be busy for a while here with me, but I’ll pass on the message!